The Girl Texting Mindset
If you have the right mindset about attracting girls, you will automatically know how to text a girl and exactly what to say to make her want you.
On the other hand, if you do not have the right mindset then you will always be struggling for “what to say.” Even if you manage to “fake it” for a while, eventually the truth will come through. (To learn more about if a girl doesn’t text you back, check out my article on what to talk about with a girl while texting.)
That’s how powerful the right mindset can be.
A mindset is a set of ideas and belief that you hold in your head and it dictates everything that you think and do.
Here’s the right mindset you should have when texting a girl.
Take on the attitude that you text messages are brightening up her day. You are adding value to her life and making it more fun that it was before.
Although you are not going to do it by being super overly nice and kiss her ass. Remember, you are a high status man of value and you are doing her a favor by texting her and adding value to her life.
Think to yourself, “How would I act if I had 10 hot, beautiful girls in my life and I had my pick of any of them?”
Would you be needy or approval seeking? Would you worry about her not texting you back?
No way!
You’d just send her a fun, playful text and then get on with your bad-self!
You could care less if she texts you back or not. Heck! She could be fighting World War III over there and that’s why she can’t text you back yet. Or maybe she’s just not interested in you. Either way, you don’t take it personally and you stay cool.
You are trying to qualify her as much as she is trying to qualify you. You have standards to and she has to meet them.
If she does text you back, you are not going to just stop whatever you are doing to answer it. It’s not that big of a deal to you.
Internalize these beliefs and they will become natural.
Armed with this successful mindset, you won’t have to worry about not knowing what to say anymore. This way of thinking will allow you to know exactly what to do. And of course, when you apply this, you will see your result with women improve very rapidly.
Now all you have to do is check out my personal blog at howtoflirtwithagirlovertext.org and go through all the informative tutorials I have posted over there and get everything you wish to learn about how to flirt over text.
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